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主要的矛盾还是外向者更多(至少在西方),他们的行为便成了标准。
主要的矛盾还是外向者更多(至少在西方),他们的行为便成了标准。
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== Basic Social Advice for HSPs ==
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'''5. Social Relationships'''
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=== When you have to chitchat ===
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If you want to talk (which puts you in control and keeps you from being bored), plan ahead to plant the topic you enjoy and can go on and on about.
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=== Having to make a request ===
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(For small ones) If possible, make the requests the moment you realize you need to. Or make them in a bunch, when you are feeling in an outgoing mood.
== 其它摘抄 ==
== 其它摘抄 ==