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主要的矛盾还是外向者更多（至少在西方），他们的行为便成了标准。
主要的矛盾还是外向者更多（至少在西方），他们的行为便成了标准。
'''P130'''
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You like to be introverted. Sure, go to parties, but they should be small ones where you know people. Otherwise, pick out someone who appears as sensitive and deeply interesting as yourself and take off together as soon as possible. That's the HSP way to party. You are not shy or unlovable. You will definitely meet interesting people and have close relationships -- you just have to '''pick and choose your situations'''.
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并不要回避所有的社交活动，我们可以选择适合自己的去参加。也可以主动创造条件（比如看到有「同类」可以主动和他们说话）。
== Basic Social Advice for HSPs ==
== Basic Social Advice for HSPs ==