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→7. Close Relationships
One excellent tactic for '''finding other HSPs''' is to ask your extroverted friends to introduce you to others they now who are like you.
One excellent tactic for '''finding other HSPs''' is to ask your extroverted friends to introduce you to others they now who are like you.
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'''P161 When the Other Is Not As Highly Sensitive'''
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Everyone has to decide for themselves the areas in which it is good enough to be dumb but paired with an expert, and those in which it is not okay at all to be a dummy.
When it comes to your trait, whoever is even a little less sensitive becomes the expert in doing anything that might overarouse the more sensitive one. Or if you are both sensitive, you may specialize in different areas. There are advantages for both parties. There is more calm, and one person feels helpful, the other, helped. Indeed, the less sensitive person may come to feel indispensable and find this all too reassuring.
Meanwhile, the more sensitive one does all the attending to the subtle for both. Some of this may seem less crucial -- to have creative new ideas, know why you are living, '''deepen communications''', appreciate beauty. But if there is a strong bond between the two, it is probably because the less sensitive person truly needs and values what, you, the more sensitive one contributes.
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两个人一起生活时，互补的地方可以互相帮助。
== 我的感受 ==
== 我的感受 ==