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You were born to be among the advisors and thinkers, the spiritual and moral leaders of your society. There is every reason for pride.
You were born to be among the advisors and thinkers, the spiritual and moral leaders of your society. There is every reason for pride.
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=== 2. Digging Deeper ===
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Finally, being sensitive to the discomfort, disapproval, or anger of others probably made you quick to '''follow every rule as perfectly as possible''', afraid to make a mistake.
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这说的就是我。比如 UCSD CanyonView 游泳池要求 no lane sharing，我就会非常严格地遵守。之前因为来游的人太多有人 share 泳道，我看到还有点震惊。还有 zc 考冲浪的游泳考试的时候我需要教他踩水，当时对于在同一个泳道里教他我都有点不自在，感觉自己打破了什么规定。
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Being so good all the time, however, meant '''ignoring many of your normal human feelings''' -- irritation, frustration, selfishness, rage. Since you were so eager to please, others could ignore your needs when, in fact, yours were often greater than theirs. This would only fuel your anger. But such feelings may have been so frightening that you buried them. The fear of their breaking out would become yet another source of "unreasonable" fears and nightmares.
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对于自己的合理需求，还是需要主动争取。
== 我的感受 ==
== 我的感受 ==