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| 通过解释自己的特性,他人可以更好地了解自己,并能理解我们的一些「反常」的举动。 | | 通过解释自己的特性,他人可以更好地了解自己,并能理解我们的一些「反常」的举动。 |
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| + | == 内向与外向 == |
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| + | === 5. Social Relationships === |
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| + | '''P118''' |
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| + | In all, 70 percent of HSPs tend to be socially "introverted." That does not mean you dislike people. It means you prefer to have '''a few close relationships rather than a large circle of friends''' and don't usually enjoy large parties or crowds. |
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| + | Introverts are still social beings. In fact, their well-being is more affected by their social relationships than is the well-being of extroverts. Introverts just to for '''quality, not quantity'''. |
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| + | 内向者会更喜欢 close relationship,而不是很多浅交的朋友。 |
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| + | '''P119 Appreciating the Introverted Style''' |
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| + | (Avril Thorne's Experiment) |
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| + | The highly '''introverted''' women were '''serious and focused'''. They talked more about problems and were more cautious. They tended to listen, to interview, to give advice; they seemed to be '''concentrating on the other''' in a deep way. |
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| + | In contrast, the highly '''extroverted''' women did more "pleasure" talk, sought ore '''agreement''', looked for '''similarities''' in background and experience, and paid more '''compliments'''. They were upbeat and expansive and liked being paired with either type, as if their main pleasure were in the talking. |
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| + | The picture we gain from Throne is that '''each type contributes something to this world that is ''equally'' important.''' |
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| + | 这个世界是多样的,每种人都是不可或缺的。 |
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| == 其它摘抄 == | | == 其它摘抄 == |
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| 有的时候我们并不是因为社交而感到 overaroused,可能是在场的其它因素。可以把自己引导到别的原因上,让自己更享受社交。 | | 有的时候我们并不是因为社交而感到 overaroused,可能是在场的其它因素。可以把自己引导到别的原因上,让自己更享受社交。 |
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| == 我的感受 == | | == 我的感受 == |