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These experiments represent only some key highlights among many from a vast social cognitive neuroscience literature that all point to the same conclusion: humans are wired to be social.
These experiments represent only some key highlights among many from a vast social cognitive neuroscience literature that all point to the same conclusion: humans are wired to be social.
'''P110 connection vs. conversation'''
;connection
: low-bandwidth interactions that define our online social lives
;conversation
: the much richer, high-bandwidth communication that defines real-world encounters between humans. Can be face-to-face meeting, a video chat or phone call
'''P111 — P118 conversation-centric communication'''
The philosophy of conversation-centric communication takes a harder stance. It argues that '''conversation is the only form''' of interaction that in some sence '''''counts'' toward maintaining a relationship'''.
In this philosophy, connection is downgraded to a '''logistical role'''. This form of interaction now has two goals: to help set up and arrange conversation, or to efficiently transfer practical information (e.g., a metting location or time for an upcomming event).
This philosophy has nothing against technology—so long as the '''tools are put to use to improve your real-world social life''' as opposed to diminishing it.
Finally, it's worth noting that refusing to use social media icons and comments to interact means that some people ''will'' inevitably fall out of your social orbit. Here's my tough love reassurance: '''let them go'''. ... As an academic who studies and teaches social media explained to me: "I don't think we're meant to keep in touch with so many people".
== 我的感受 ==
== 我的感受 ==