The Highly Sensitive Person in Love
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3. HSPs and the Fear of Intimacy
P100 On becoming secure
5. Revise your assumptions. Periodically reflect on your fears of intimacy as realistically as possible, because as you progress, it will be easier to talk yourself out of them. Sometimes a "gut fear" established in infancy will never go away, but it can be overridden by thinking to yourself: "I know this fear is meant to protect me, but it's like a false alarm--I do not need to act on it. I appreciate the warning very much, but I think I will ignore it."